The control of anger and the role of religion in the prevention of psychological violence in family

In recent years, domestic violence that is both witnessed personally and observed from media has been increased extremely so that government have to regulate their law depending on positive discrimination for women and children that have a disadvantage for this situation. If the violence is defined as an action of despotism and digestion performed by powerful people toward powerless, the first that comes to mind will be the physical, sexual, economic violence or the children exploitation. However, for women and children the most hurtful, unforgettable and unacceptable violence is psychological violence even if most people do not accept this as a violence element. Hence, the subject of this research comprises of the psychological violence, indicates each abnormal behavior that damage to spiritual health such as insult, humiliation, threat, overjealousy, the control of anger to prevent the violence and Islamic advice to control the anger. Results: Even if the aggression is accepted a congenital inner stimulation or behaviour obtained by external interactions; the dosage of individual aggression plays a major role in domestic violence occurrence. Although psycological violence in family cannot be expressed and realized easily by individuals, when the results are analyzed, it is obviously shown that this kind of violence has the most hurtful effect. The control of anger has a central role to decrease the dosage of aggression and prevent a potential action of violence. If the perception of religion and the power of religious sanction upon people are considered, how to understand and perceive correctly Islam affects positively the control of anger and accordingly the prevention of domestic violence will arise. Keywords: Anger, Anger Management, Family Violence, Religion.