Marital instability in the context of gender divorce weary of life: Sample Bursa

As a part of society, the family forms a system within itself. This system starts with the marriage of men and women and is shaped by the roles attributed by society. In recent years, the increase in women's participation in business life, the spread of urban life, and the advancement of technology have deeply affected traditional gender roles and family dynamics. These changes have influenced the structures of family systems and led to their deterioration. In our research, a quantitative study was conducted using the scale of marital instability to explore the reasons for the deterioration of the system and the impact of the gender factor. The disruption of the system leads to the phenomenon of divorce. Each individual experiences this phenomenon differently, with varying emotions. While some see divorce as freedom, others view it as a loss. Qualitative data were obtained by examining the different experiences associated with gender roles, and the responses were analyzed using phenomenological theory. Taking a phenomenological approach to the phenomenon of resignation to life experienced during the marriage process, the divorce phase, and the restructuring process allows us to understand these experiences in depth and reveals the meaning of subjective experiences at each stage. The reorganization process is a period in which individuals experience grief in different ways, especially after significant life changes such as divorce. During this process, individuals may struggle to cope with the sadness they feel for the lost relationship or lifestyle, which can make them feel resentful towards life. This emotional reaction can be expressed through their efforts to accept their loss and establish a new life. It is normal for each individual to experience this process differently, and it should be seen as a personal journey of healing. In this study, the gender factor as a cause of deterioration in the family system was analyzed quantitatively using the marital instability scale. The scale was used to investigate how men and women evaluate their marriages and the effects of these evaluations on the family system. Additionally, the concept of "resignation to life" in the context of divorce was examined using qualitative data and a phenomenological approach. This method aimed to understand individuals' emotional experiences during the divorce process, the losses they experienced, and their feelings of resentment towards life. By combining quantitative data analysis to determine the role of gender in the family system with qualitative data analysis to explore individuals' emotional experiences, this study aims to contribute to the understanding of divorce, family dynamics, and social policy recommendations. Keywords: Family, Divorce, Phenomonology, Weary of life, Systems theory, Gender,