The investigation of the relationship the communication problems of the partners in the romantic relationships and transactional analysis of life scripts: A research about young adults

Human scenario starts from the moment of birth. In which environment he was born, he is born together with how a parent belongs. The first factors in the shaping process are the environment in which it was born, and then the environment that will be formed by itself and its parents, which are the first models. Everyone is the scriptwriter, director and actor of their own script. The subject of the film was determined at birth. It is time to write the script. Writing a scenario that remains in mind is only possible if one knows himself. A person starts his life with a feeling of belonging to an empty page. Fills pages where they live. In the first lines, he tells his family, tells the environment in which he was born and writes what he has learned from them. Then comes the memories of the times when he applied what he had learned from them. At that point, he fights the question of recognizing himself and deciding whether he is okey or not. The life scenario is shaped in this way and there is a definition of the positions of life in behaviors. The continuity of the scenario is whether they feel and live in their life positions. He lives his own world. Sometimes there are conflicts, there are fights, sometimes there is the taste of romantic comedy. Fears are sometimes confronted. Sometimes he pursues fantastic dreams. The person shapes his life. Those in the script form the person's summary. Who are you? and the person asks who am I. Life is the story of self-searching. The first pages are the determinants of other pages. Because one adopts the first pages so much, he digs so much that he always sees the traces of the things he describes on his first page in his brain relations, business life, love life, old age and youth. He seems familiar, but often doesn't ask why. Because no one asked. When asked, the script now deserves the final and a new scenario is made and life is reshaped with brand new positions. The individual lives his life with more awareness and more self-knowledge. The aim of this study is to enable university students in romantic relationships to learn what they want from their lives and to increase their awareness. In this context, it was aimed to measure love attitudes and life expectancy by applying love attitudes and life positions scale to young adults. In the one-to-one interviews with couples, the questions asked by adults aimed to make them aware of the issues they were not aware of and about which they were not aware of. Love emerges as soon as one is born. The first love of children, the first person they are connected to their mother. And then it is shaped according to the environment it creates or is forced to. He involuntarily reflects many behaviors in which he acts. This research focuses on the situations in which these behaviors occur. One-on-one interviews and results are examined within the framework of awareness, life scenario and love attitudes. The research in question The Romantic Relationships of Young Adults at Ege University The English language of our young adults in this origin, so it should be applied in sewing. The aim here is to prove that the adult's love attitude is different from each other but by showing more prominent features in several attitudes. The scale's background positions also provided inferences about transactional-analyzed lifestyle scenarios. In one-to-one interviews with couples, the reasons for communication problems, their acquaintance in their centers, their gaze aiming at approaching, and what it is you want from a relationship are caught here. It starts as soon as I wake up. He communicates first. The flow of the day determines how he wakes up. He thinks what I can do for breakfast. Then communication with other people begins. He expects communication in the neighborhood, at work, in the mall, and in the room during the day to communicate him anything. People are forced to communicate. There are attitudes and behaviors of the person. His attitudes towards himself, his family, his friends and the people on the streets are his personality. Love is in every aspect of life. The instinct of belonging is one of the only things that man has taken and applied from birth. He tries to get it all his life. He wants to belong to a job. A family wants to belong. He wants to be his own. Want to belong to others. The feeling of belonging belongs to love. This study is important in terms of showing how young adults behave when they belong, how well they know themselves, whether they are aware of their expectations from the person they are in love with, whether they know their own definition of love, and the awareness that people avoid being asked about their relationships.